“Single and not single” based on to be or not to be ---????---

It became quite a hot topic among my circle of friends these days, pros and cons being single or having relationship
I guess the fact that I’m in relationship for the last couple of years but yet having the advantage of being single as well (long distance thingy) makes me unexposed to this kind of topic.

My thought has been wandering around lately ….and I DO have a lots of question for my self….such as how it feels to totally being single, skip routine conversation on the phone for the sake of US communicating… being worried at the same time when it come to realize gee I don’t have someone to share with, someone that care, and someone to cuddle with hahahaha all those sort crazy question.

And all come to a point… ”Do we really need to stay on the relationship just because others do, or should we just stay single coz by that no responsibility attached, no heart on the line for being broken etc, etc”
Every now and then, my action and my thought seems can’t get along with each other, there’s a point when I absolutely sure that I don’t need anyone (basically survive just being with me and friends without having any romance relationship attached to it) but at the same time I want to have someone to call, to talk, to go to concert with , bottom line having a connection with someone.

Single and not single….I don’t give a damn actually as long as I’m happy (Align with my current status which is hmmmm….It’s complicated ^-^ )

New Year Resolution....as they say....

for this couple of days, i've been hearing lots of resolution.
what i don't get is why u have to be pattern on year basis to make a resolution, u could do it anytime u like actually, but got to admit make a resolution based on year is easier to track and measure...and i guess it's just feel like a norm to do it.

i didn't make any on the new year's eve, didn't even thought about those stuff (shame on me...shame on me) but actually it feels good to start on something without having a perimeter at the beginning on what u have to achieve (and it way beyond my habit, so another novelty hehehe)
BUT now i'm tempted to list down my resolution, so here it goes ....
1. Stay Healthy (reduce all those headache due to work,esp. lack of sleep =p)
2. Stay Focus ...for whatever ...whenever
3. Start making a big decision (personal one hahahhaha..wonder what it might be hehehhe)
4. Make time for family and Friends (gee, i missed out lots last year but i hope i can make it up this year)
5. And last but not least ...losing out those extra calories in my hip & thigh hehehehe, i know this last one gonna need extra effort since food is definitely my weakness...i just can't resist them.

BINGO...already write them down...not in detail but at least some guidance to enter the new year.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!