intriguing moment

Last weekend I go to Bandung (around 2 hours drive from Jakarta) with couple of old friends and some of new ones, as always Bandung trip was fun and fulfilling especially for the stomach as Bandung widely known as culinary place ;-)

I’m pretty much click with a new friends of mine, means we can talk about everything and nothing, but one question from him really took me by surprise.

We sat in front of the TV, having our breakfast while waiting rest of the crew finished their shower, when suddenly he asked:

X: "Ce...what's date for you?"
(I’m still trying to figure out where that question gonna lead me , when he re-confirm his question)
X: "Is sex included?"
CH: "hah!!!" (I think my jaw was wide open at that moment)

Well, I’m not trying to be a saint here, coz I believe that sex do needed in relationship (mark my word ...relationship) to some extent, but the fact that the question coming from a guy that I knew less than 24 hours is intriguing...isn't it?
Make you wonder about the general perception.

Are we as Indonesian already go to that level, are we that blunt now?
Coz the question he gave me was very straight forward...rite?