hmmm -with frown on my face-

Came across bachelorette party the other day, needless to say it was Fun, wild but safe at the same time hahahaha
After whirlwind of illusions and rainbow which proved to be quite a weapon, I’m navigating my mind and really digest a revelation point that I’ve got.

Rumors spread that u will have so called wedding jittery when you approaching the D-day, experiencing cold feet moment and just instantly want to walk away.
But the point is you just really unsure whether that was really driven by your nervousness or maybe that’s one of the sign to rethinking again ‘bout the step.

My friends also experiencing one, which ended with her –soon to be- husband exclaim “let’s just move on and get done with it! We can proceed for divorce 3 month afterward”

And I just went “huh…what the heck!!” expression hearing those.
I mean what’s the point of continuing the wedding ceremony and all that if you already knew that it will went kaput in couple months time, if it’s inevitable so why bother???

I know losing face is the least thing on earth that Indonesian family wish to experience, but I still think the price to pay is way more than that!!!