Ending is the beginning

received an email from friend whose currently having his traineeship in Rumania,
approaching his last month there, he roused a question which triggered me wrote this

" how to prepare one self coming home after the traineeship?"

some of my friend put their 2 cent worth, here they are:
mia wrote:
"can only think of one important advice... don't rush to eat in all your favourite warungs - your stomach might disagree. Take it easy, eat at home for a few days before eating in Kebon Kacang, Sate Djono etc"

cer wrote this :
"Well.. As for me, I guess don't be surprised that your friends are not all that dying to see you. I mean, yes, they'd get out of their way, only if it's not THAT much out of their way (Hehe!) but you have to go home prepared to accept that things HAVE happened WITHOUT you and that's just a fact we have to live with"

what's urs ?